My personality profile on Gary Smalley and John Trent's scale is "Golden Retriever."
Strengths | Strengths Pushed Out of Balance |
Sensitive feelings | Easily hurt |
Loyal | Missed opportunities |
Calm, even-keel | Lacking enthusiasm |
Non-demanding, patient | Push-over, taken advantage of |
Peace maker, hates confrontation | Misses honest intimacy |
Enjoys routine, dislikes change | Stays in rut, not spontaneous |
Warm & relational | Fewer deep friends |
Accomodating | Too indecisive |
Sympathetic, good listener | Holds on to other's hurt or pain |
What does a balanced Golden Retriever look like? Since Golden Retrievers have an eagerness to please others, they have a hard time saying "No." Therefore, their greatest relational need is to set limits and boundaries essential for their own well-being. Further, Retrievers need to practice confronting others. Turn your ability to feel deeply about negative things into a positive step, one where you think and act decisively.
On the SOCIAL STYLE Model™, my primary style is "Amiable" with high Versatility (I play well with others). My back-up or subquadrant is the "Driver" which means that I take charge when needed. Here's the description for an Amiable:
"Amiables are people-oriented, and care more about close relationships than results or influence. They usually appear warm, friendly and cooperative. Amiables tend to move slowly with a low time discipline, minimizing risk and often using personal opinions to arrive at decisions. Belonging to a group is a primary need, and Amiables may make every effort to gain acceptance. They typically seek to uncover common ground, preferring to achieve objectives through understanding and mutual respect rather than force and authority. When managed by force without relationship, Amiables appear to cooperate initially but will likely lack commitment to the objectives and may later resist implementation."
So, what's your style?
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